Engaged Couples: Need your help!

Awhile back I posted a call for help to par­tic­i­pate in a study for engaged cou­ples to par­tic­i­pate in regard­ing their atti­tudes towards mar­riage and par­ent­hood. Well, they are still in the process of recruit­ing par­tic­i­pants! The study is being con­ducted by doc­toral stu­dent Cristina Reitz-Krueger, work­ing in con­junc­tion with with Dr. Charlotte J. Patterson, a Professor of Psychology at the University of Virginia. If you have the time and fit into the demo­graphic they are look­ing for (which includes cou­ples of all sex­ual ori­en­ta­tions) they would really appre­ci­ate the help. Here are the details:

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Engaged vol­un­teers needed!

I am look­ing for vol­un­teers for a study of atti­tudes towards mar­riage and par­ent­hood among engaged cou­ples. The study con­sists of a 25 – 30 minute online sur­vey. To qual­ify for the study, you must be 20 – 35 years old, live in the U.S., and plan to marry or have a com­mit­ment cer­e­mony within the next 365 days. You and your roman­tic part­ner must not have chil­dren, and this must be the first mar­riage for both of you.

You can:

–Help a doc­toral can­di­date;
–Increase the pool of sci­en­tific knowl­edge;
–Support research on mar­riage and fam­i­lies; and
–Spend some time think­ing about your relationship!

I am work­ing with Dr. Charlotte J. Patterson, a Professor of Psychology at the University of Virginia.  This study has been approved by the University of Virginia Institutional Review Board #2009025800.

If you and/or your roman­tic part­ner are inter­ested in par­tic­i­pat­ing or want fur­ther infor­ma­tion, please email me at survey.couples@gmail.com. I will send you a link that you can use to access the study.

Invitation du Jour

This invi­ta­tion isn’t tech­ni­cally a wed­ding invi­ta­tion, but with a quick change of the word­ing and it would work per­fectly. Designer Megan Sullivan was tasked to cre­ate a pro­mo­tional piece for her pre­vi­ous employer, and she chose to develop an invi­ta­tion suite based on the theme of “Away We Go”. The piece includes lots of fun details includ­ing custom-designed postage stamps, lug­gage tags and pro­duc­tion details like emboss­ing — read more about it right here.

Our Wedding: The After Party

Because the recep­tion ended at 4pm, we knew we wouldn’t be ready to call it a day. So we chose to have an after party at a local bar within walk­ing dis­tance. (The bar itself was really cool, but the wait­staff was not exactly happy with us, unfor­tu­nately.) And hon­estly, after hav­ing been through it, I am a huge fan of day wed­dings. I never would have thought I’d feel this way before, but it was really great. Everyone hung out for far longer than they would have if our wed­ding started at 6pm, so we got to spend a lot more time with each and every guest.

Smiles all around…

Can you see the theme here? I some­how got talked into far too many shots that day (espe­cially since I am not a big drinker at all.)


All pho­tos taken by friends and family

And that does it for the recaps! Wow, I had no idea how dif­fi­cult it would be to put together all of these posts or how long it would actu­ally take. So it’s def­i­nitely a load off to have it all out there and com­plete. The next step is to design our wed­ding album, which we’ll be doing through Blurb in the next month or so, so I’ll be sure to share that with you as soon as we’re fin­ished. And now we can get back to all of the other con­tent that’s been pil­ing up around here!

Our Wedding: The Booth

The photo booth was one aspect of the recep­tion we were most excited for because we knew at least some of our guests would have a lot of fun with it. And it really turned out to be a huge hit.


photo taken by friends and family

For the back­drop we used the navy and white fab­ric that was orig­i­nally intended for table run­ners (Brian’s Mom was kind enough to make it for us). I picked up the yardage at Zimman’s on a trip home, but you can also buy it online right here.

We kept the props pretty sim­ple: these chalk­boards plus chalk, these sun­glasses (peo­ple LOVED these, we should have got­ten more), and bubbles.

Even our pho­tog­ra­phers were sur­prised by our crowd’s rowdiness!


Unless oth­er­wise noted, all pho­tos by Unusually Fine

Edit: Amanda asked a great ques­tion in the com­ments: “Did your pho­tog­ra­pher take the pho­tos or did you have a cam­era set up?” In real­ity our booth wasn’t actu­ally a booth. We set up a lit­tle cor­ner of the room with the back­drop, and our pho­tog­ra­pher and her assis­tant, JB, took turns snap­ping the pho­tos. There wasn’t really a sta­tion with a cam­era set up, so they were able to move around freely.

Our Wedding: The Celebration

One of our biggest wor­ries about hav­ing a day wed­ding was that peo­ple wouldn’t dance and get into the cel­e­bra­tion. And boy we were wrong.


photo taken by friends and family


Unless oth­er­wise noted, all pho­tos by Unusually Fine

Trouble

My Kate Spade obses­sion may have hit an all time high yes­ter­day. Between the candy-colored images from their new Spring 2011 look­book

and this inter­view with Deborah Lloyd fea­tur­ing Things we Love, a book that col­lects bits of their inspi­ra­tions (sim­i­lar to the things we love fea­ture on their site) in printed form, I would say I am in trou­ble, or my wal­let is anyway.

Our Wedding: The Cupcakes

The cup­cake stand and flags were another fun project we worked on. For the flags we sim­ply designed a few dif­fer­ent say­ings, used a zig zag punch to cut them out, and attached them to tooth­picks with clear stick­ers on the back.

The stand came from Save-on Crafts, and all we did was cover the rings with blue paper and trim the edges with more navy and white striped ribbon.


two pho­tos above by Unusually Fine

Inspired by the cou­ple in this post, we also made a cup­cake iden­ti­fi­ca­tion sign. I cre­ated lit­tle illus­tra­tions of each fla­vor so that the guests could tell which they were choos­ing. Oh, and by the way, the cup­cakes them­selves, which were deli­cious, came from Cupcake Stop.

Here’s a larger view:

Unless oth­er­wise noted, all above pho­tos taken by me

For You Love Me

I am swoon­ing over these videos by For You Love Me. (Man I really wish we had done a video!) Follow their blog for updates.

Our Wedding: The Buttons

We really wanted to cre­ate a fun point of inter­ac­tion for the guests as soon as they arrived at the recep­tion. So rather than tra­di­tional escort cards, we decided to make indi­vid­ual but­tons (We bought out but­ton maker at Dr. Don’s on the advice of Erin Jang) for each guest, which Brian labored over for hours.

We then, and by we I mean Brian, made a stand-up dis­play for them. Maybe at some point I can put together a DIY for this, but for now I’ll have to give you a quick overview. The base of the stand is 3 12″ x 12″ can­vases. Each can­vas was cov­ered with a cork panel, then wrapped in fab­ric and rib­bon strips, and then attached together with hinges.


photo taken by friends and family

We set up two signs on each side of the dis­play that listed every­one alpha­bet­i­cally so they could quickly find their but­ton by table number.

And for an extra dose of fun, we designed a whole slew of but­tons that sat in a dish on each table. We came up with a few stan­dard designs that were on all of the tables, but then each set of guests got their own set of but­tons that fea­tured inside jokes, nick­names and the like. It was a nice lit­tle sur­prise for the guests to find once they sat down, and it cer­tainly got them excited.


Unless oth­er­wise noted, all pho­tos by Unusually Fine

A Unique Dessert

Sadly I have yet to visit Momofuku Milk Bar, but its unique and whim­si­cal desserts have put it at the top of my to-visit list. And now, every­one across the coun­try can have a taste, as they’ve opened up an online shop sell­ing sev­eral of their pop­u­lar items. Their pies, which include fla­vors like Cinnabon Bun and Candy Bar, would cer­tainly make for a deli­cious dessert bar and a con­ver­sa­tion piece. (They also offer wed­ding cakes if you’re more of a traditionalist.)